Two things can be true at the same time.
Nickie Tilsner Nickie Tilsner

Two things can be true at the same time.

What is reparenting?

Full disclosure: this is something that I’m still learning about. I am in no way a reparenting expert, and I honestly began this inner work before I knew there was a name for it. What I do know is that reparenting is simply giving yourself what you needed when you were young, but didn’t receive.

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5 things I want you to know about harm reduction
Nickie Tilsner Nickie Tilsner

5 things I want you to know about harm reduction

At its core, harm reduction is a set of strategies and ideas for reducing harm related to substance use. It was created in response to the HIV/AIDS epidemic, and has grown exponentially in the last three decades to meet the multi-layered, intersectional needs of people who use drugs.

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I want to tell you about Capstone.
Nickie Tilsner Nickie Tilsner

I want to tell you about Capstone.

Folks tell us that what they most appreciate about this training is the breadth of knowledge and lived experience that our facilitators have, the space created for connection and community, the content of the course, and the space that our facilitators hold for our learners. We hope you get to have that experience for yourself, wherever you choose to learn.

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It’s not just Emily. Thoughts on grief and loss
Nickie Tilsner Nickie Tilsner

It’s not just Emily. Thoughts on grief and loss

This blog post is profoundly personal and vulnerable. I write it as a catharsis, in hope of feeling less isolated in my grief. And I write this to let folks know that they aren’t alone in their own experiences with grief.

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It finally happened. I got Covid.
Nickie Tilsner Nickie Tilsner

It finally happened. I got Covid.

I was talking with a friend about it today (over zoom, cuz Covid) How is it that we’re living in this moment in a full blown pandemic, but I’m still surprised when it catches up to me? Why are so many people continuing to choose to live in denial about the severity of this pandemic? And they summed it up perfectly.

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Notes to self on burnout + boundary
Maliya Rubio-Mills Maliya Rubio-Mills

Notes to self on burnout + boundary

About the author: Maliya Rubio- Mills (she/they) is River Blue Birth; a full spectrum birth worker, student midwife, and artist residing on unceded Ramaytush Ohlone Land (SF/Bay Area).

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